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Here are my opinions about things. Maybe quite "look like the same " to people who past away said.
1.When you don't know what you want, you will get "nothing".
好像人總要在逆境中求成長，有時候自認為順風，其實這風不一定是帶著你往你想要去的方向。 請準備好你的記錄指針，在這人生的航道上，沒有一個常規能永遠適用。記錄下在每個環境中，學到的點點滴滴，調整好腳步、往下個島邁進。...歡迎來到，新世界囧...。


2.Things fade away.
有一次回外婆家，剛好看到外公的筆記本。外公印象中不是個多健談的人，但筆記本裡確多的是當孫子的人從沒曾聽過的話。感謝女兒帶他去醫院一同面對白血球很多的病，祝福孫子輩成長順遂，還有記錄每天的頌經次數。從一開始第一頁不留空白的開始寫，字跡工整的開始寫，寫到剩下五分之一的時候，字跡變得嚴重潦草，空白變多，只能認出個大概的...記錄病情，感謝家人...。
I love my dog also. Like to train it biting clothes, chasing around and do nothing, putting it on a desk higher enough that she wont jump down and getting some food to trick her. ....
All these things will be gone. Someday I can only figure their shapes by picture, notebook, memories. No longer  smelling its dog smell & being waked up by that soft chanting. Someday, there is going to be my turn, facing the endless darkness, no more light, no  more sound, no more mind, no more anything. I still think this is QUITE a sad thing, 如果搭配哀傷音樂可能眼淚就要洩洪了T^T.


3.事情對別人來說時常不是想的那麼簡單
時常有人覺得為什麼別人不為他想想，到後來別人也開始覺得有人也是不為他著想。通常還會有個路人丙跟丁，分別為兩邊候選人站台，事情愈走愈歪，各種心理預測、趨勢分析都出來了。從一開始一個人開始猜測另一個人心裡想什麼，幫忙另一人設定了很多腳本、責任義務而放棄了溝通或是省略了溝通。漸漸方向可能不同了，兩人開始拔河，有時候有人拔贏，然後有人要開始喝酒，then maybe 大吵一架，有人覺得無辜，可能和解了，調整新的方向，結局可能不拔了、各走各的路吧。

Sooooooooooo many things are hard to understand unless you get  some experience.